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You've all heard the one about people getting divorced in January haven't you? You know, the couple had an horrific Christmas, the mother in law bought a terrible present someone made an awful meal, there was a drunk in the house etc? Well, for years it has bothered me. Not because I'm so busy in January but quite the opposite. It is 10th January 2012 as I write this and I haven't issued a petition all year (for shame). I'd like to know who issues the first petition this year in each court just out of curiosity if nothing else. I've never had the pleasure of being a "01"-  the reference number of the first petition issued in any court.

The reason it bothers me is primarily the fact that it is always SO quiet in the office at this time of year. Of course, sometimes there are emergency situations but in my experience these are few and far between and they don't involve a person demanding a divorce on the 4th January.

So, In order to prove a point I contacted the ONS to ask them if they kept statistical data on the number of petitions (now called applications) for divorce submitted on a monthly basis. No, they said, they don't.

How then, do the media get hold of "statistics" year on year that are accurate if they are not being obtained through the National Office?

I asked the ONS for the next best thing that I could think of, the Decree Absolute records. Happily they do keep monthly records and they agrred to produce the data "as long as you pay our fee", which I duly did. 3 days later I received an email with the statistical data as requested for a 4 year period.

January - December 2008/2009/2010 and just for fun I ordered data for the year 2000 too just to see what was going on a decade ago.

Well reader, what a surprise! There is virtually no change in the percentage of Decree Absolute's pronounced over these 4 years on a monthly basis. In the year 2010 there were nearly 20,000 fewer decrees (inc nullity and Judicial separation) and yet the percentage of absolutes in divorces were pretty regular throughout the year.

In every month the percentage of decrees pronounced is between 7-10%, In the year 2010 the number of decrees in each percentage point was about 1194, so a small percentage difference could be a substantial number. I thought it was interesting to note that in August, when the courts are traditionally on vacation, the percentage held at a steady 8% over the 4 year period.

Some may say that the pronouncement of decree absolute isn't a reliable factor because in each court the time it takes to get to that stage will differ and many people don't apply for the decree absolute until the finances have been agreed or there has been a trial of the issues.

However, if there really was a spike in the number of divorce petitions sent to courts across the country in January there should be a corresponding  spike elsewhere that corresponds with decree absolute pronouncements and there just isn't.

In fact in January 2008 there were more decree absolute pronouncements than in any other month, so more people are getting divorced but not in the way that most people think!

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‘Mena Ruparel is a knowledgeable,  authoritative and engaging  Lecturer who encouraged the delegates to interact with her; ‘Hot Topics in Family Finance’ contained a wealth [excuse the pun] of useful information for Family Lawyers’

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I first met Mena whilst studying for my undergraduate law degree during my placement year at Goodhand and Forsyth, where she was engaged as a consultant solicitor in the firm’s family department. I was initially interviewed for my position at Goodhand and Forsyth by Mena and she later became my training supervisor.

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"I first met Mena a few years ago, just a couple of years after I started practicing family law.  Mena was lecturing near Regent Street and I remember it being all about matrimonial finance for family lawyers.  I was immediately struck by her warmth and she engaged straightaway with me and was interested in what I had to say.

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 "Mena Ruparel is one of those disarming persons who mixes her knowledge, skill and experience with a generous personality and good natured practicality.

Her vast competence is reflected in her position as a senior matrimonial practitioner, lecturer, trainer and arbitrator.

Best testimonial

"I would though like to take the opportunity of saying that having attended family law and other subject courses over 36 years I have never found any lecturer better than Mena Ruparel".

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 "I've worked with Mena on many divorce cases and found her to be technically excellent. She always has a firm understanding of her clients position and what is right for them."

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"I am writing to let you know how happy I have been with the help Mena has been to me through what has been the most difficult time in my life."

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“The best seminar I have ever been to and possibly the most knowledgeable speaker – lots of extra content about the cases which makes it interesting.”

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"Mena and I very successfully worked together on an Arbitration to deal with the financial aspects of a divorce, which had a number of complicating features.

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"Mena has been ghost writing informative family law pieces for our website and a variety of local press for some months now. Her suggested articles are topical and are written in an intelligent but easy to comprehend  way for the lay person.

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Having known Mena Ruparel as a family lawyer advising and representing a considerable number of our mediation clients, I have no hesitation in strongly recommending her. I consider her to be ethical, highly competent and exceptionally focussed on helping clients in separation and divorce reach a dignified and fair conclusion.

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